Simple not Easy

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Life is simple but far from easy.  Pretty much any and every issue you can think about is actually very very simple.

Take health for example.  If you were to go up to any person on the street with two plates, one with a big mac and the other with broccoli and ask which is healthier – if people were being honest, every single person would say broccoli.  If you were to ask people which is healthier – sitting on the couch watching netflix or *insert literally any form of exercise here* (walking, running, lifting weights, cycling, sports, on and on and on) which would they answer?  Is smoking healthy?  Is drinking excessively healthy?  These are very simple answers, yet difficult for the vast majority of people to act on.

Let’s move on to money.  Folks – it’s so fucking simple I don’t know why I need to type it out.  I could spout countless examples like buying clothes retail, leasing a brand new car, buying that big screen tv so you can sit on your ass all day and eat doritos and watch netflix, how many god damn pairs of shoes do you need??? People know they should be saving instead of spending.  It’s common sense.  It’s freaking so simple yet far from easy.

Now relationships. Ironically people would have much better relationships if they worked on themselves first.  Guys you want to find a girlfriend/wife/fuck buddy?  Quit sitting on your ass playing video games all day and improve yourself.  Family problems?  See the patterns that have been established, get over your damn ego and work on the root of the problems.  This realm can be a tad more complex, but it oftentimes comes down to yourself – because there’s only one thing we have complete control of in this world.

Everyone knows what they should and should not be doing to improve their lives.  The hard part is getting off your ass and doing the things that will make your life better.

Take Action Now: Think about one thing in your life that you want to change. Realize how simple it really is and start taking steps to improve that area of your life.  We all know what we “should” be doing.  Get an accountability partner.  The support you give each other can be just the push you need to get started and continue down the path of self-improvement.  The hardest part is getting started and sticking to it.  Try a 30 day trial. You have to actually want to change and be willing to put in the work to accomplish your goals. If you are struggling with something feel free to send me a message and I will support you in any way I can. :)

2014 Review

So much for updating this more!  2014 was a fun year, but relatively unproductive.  I went on an Alaskan cruise, the Groove Cruise, and traveled to Florida, Texas, Phoenix, California, and went to a beautiful wedding in Denver.  Since it was the year I turned 30, I decided to go all out!

As for “work” I finally finished the house, but it still has not sold yet.  I also picked up another rental that is currently listed.  The other houses are going well so far.

I’m looking to 2015 as being a more productive year.  I have many ideas and need to determine what I want to focus on and hit it hard. Here’s to a great 2015! :)

2013 Recap

Kinda hard to believe it’s been over a year since my last update.  2013 was a good year.  Sold my first and second fix and flip.  Both were profitable, but the first was not worth the time, stress, and work involved.  The rentals are all going well.  We rented the house we were living at in Atchison and moved to Marysville, because Laura got a job in the area.  The second half of 2013 was pretty lazy for me.  I played a lot of games and haven’t really been working a lot.

Lately, I’ve set just two goals, to read a minimum of 30 minutes daily, and to exercise.  I am using a goal tracker app that is basically like the “Seinfeld calendar” method and it works surprisingly well.  I will add more goals soon.  We have been working on the blue “shed house” and still have a lot of work to do.  I will more than likely end up making money on it, but it will also be one that was way too time-consuming and stressful.  In the future I plan on being much more selective in the houses I choose.  I am interested in a small mobile home park in Manhattan, KS that may or may not even be available still.  I just have a lot on my plate with this current house and then the cat house which also has a lot of work.

I turn 30 this year.  I plan on making it a big year and have several trips planned already to Florida, California, Arizona, and an Alaskan cruise.  I am also considering EDC and burning man so it may be a very big travel year.  Gotta hit 30 with a bang.  I hope to update this more often than yearly…lol

Here’s to 2014.  May it be the best year yet!

It’s Dangerous to Go Alone! Why Relationships are the Key to Success

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I wanted to stress the importance of relationships and having a “team” when it comes to success in any field. Working in real estate, I have connections with bankers, title companies, appraisers, inspectors, other realtors, investors, landlords, construction workers, electricians, HVAC guys, and more. Still looking for a god damn reliable and reasonably priced plumber in this town though! Without these people, it would be very difficult to achieve success in this field alone; the same goes for other fields as well.

One big issue when it comes to real estate is CASH CASH CASH. I have several people I could turn to right now who have 6 figures they’d be willing to invest/partner in the right deal. I also have a reliable banker where I get my loans. So far, I am still a “small-timer” dealing with houses with purchase prices less than 50k. I am eventually looking to move up to bigger deals and commercial real estate as my portfolio grows. Without capital to fund my deals, I wouldn’t have most of the houses I have.

Another person who has been a huge impact in my life is my mentor. He is actually an old Boy Scout leader of mine, and we reconnected after I “stole” a house from him we both made offers on. This man literally saved me from making a $70,000 mistake. I owe him a lot and he keeps me grounded from making rash decisions. I was even moved up to “partner” after going in on a deal with him recently.

Do you have a mentor or someone you can go to for advice? Do you have a “team” of people helping you to achieve success in your field? While you can grind your way to the “top”, it is much, much easier to have a support system and connections in your journey to success.

TAN: There are many ways to connect with people who can help you achieve success.

  • One of the best ways is to take successful people out to lunch. While Ramit talks in regard to entrepreneurship, the same could apply to successful people in your field or higher ups. If you are a SUPER CHEAPSKATE like me, just take them out to coffee and pick their brains. Definitely be prepared with relevant, insightful questions and don’t waste their time and DON’T ARGUE WITH ANYTHING THEY SAY, EVEN IF YOU DISAGREE.
  • I have a good friend who is working for FREE for a very successful entrepreneur and gaining INVALUABLE information and skills that I know will make him successful. Look for ways you can “intern”, moonlight, apprentice, or even volunteer to achieve valuable skills and connections in relevant fields.
  • Check out for relevant interest or networking groups. Similarly, you could become active in your local chamber of commerce and network, although I haven’t had much luck personally.


Here’s to 2013

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I haven’t updated in awhile because I feel as if I haven’t had much to say.  I will instead give a quick update of what’s going on in my life and hopefully a few insights as well.

I still have not sold the damn yellow house!  Now I know what they mean when they say real estate is illiquid, and the importance of having a decent cash reserve for anything that might come up with the houses.  I have lowered the price to basically my bottom dollar.  I do have someone looking at it tomorrow, so we’ll see how it goes.

I have a lot on my plate after acquiring 3 new houses with my partner.  We definitely have our work cut out for us, but I think we found some good deals.  One of them we will attempt to flip and the other two we will rent out.

I have read some great books recently that I have added to my books section.  Conversations with God is an amazing book for Christians or atheists alike!  It basically spells out exactly what I currently believe in, and I am very happy to be more firm on my beliefs when, recently, I didn’t really know what I believed in.

Another great book I just finished was Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone.  It has some amazing ways to relate to people and get them to connect with you.  This book should be required reading for just about everyone.

I have a bunch of books in the pipeline and there is such a neverending supply of great books out there!

One more thing I have been getting into is frequent flyer miles.  There are some great credit card bonuses out there where you can earn some serious miles.  I recently acquired the starwoods rewards american express card and will have acquired close to 40k miles after a few months.  This is basically good for an international flight during off-peak times.  I also just applied (literally like 10 min ago) for two citicards with american airlines.  If you have good credit and are responsible with the cards, you can spend on normal things with them, like gas, groceries, eating out, whatever, and get a lot of miles and get some “free” plane tickets to anywhere in the world.  This is much better than the few hundred bucks in cash back I would have received.   This article by Maneesh and this site have been helpful in learning about this.  There are also countless forums and other sites with great info.

On a more personal note, my aunt has had cancer for quite awhile and finally sought traditional, medical treatment.  Today we found out that they will be unable to operate because there are too many spots, more than they thought.  She is quite hopeful and has been doing holistic treatment this whole time, but I am definitely concerned.

I am going to Beer and Pancakes again in February and am looking forward to it!  I have many goals I want to achieve this year and things are looking good.  Here’s to 2013.  Let’s make it the best year yet!